I joined back in 2008 but haven’t been on much since. I’m mum to 3 boys aged 9,6 & 3 the 3rd being utterly bonkers and he regualry pushes me to my limits, then a bit further. We live in between Guildford and Godalming, we home ed the older 2 which can be challenging due to the 3rd ones demand for all of the attention. Despite my aspirations to be a SAHM I have to work part time singing in nurseries as well as some marketing and drama teaching. Erm…as well as that I am an actor, gave up with the birth of my first then suddenly found myself working again last year up at the Edinburgh Fringe. Utter crackers with 3 kids in tow but great fun too. Oh and I write….when I can. I had 2 out of the 3 at home, the first one was a planned hwb but got hyjacked by the Royal Surrey (loooong story but i left hosp with a letter of apology and a please don’t sue!) To ensure the same debacle didn’t happen again I hired an IM for my second two. I was lucky enough to have 2 of the most amazing humans to help me birth my boys, and without them I think i’d have less children now and be on permanent anti depressants! I cloth nappied and wrapped the boys (had a bit of an addiction to both) but we’ve just decided that 3 is enough so I’m working though that. I don’t DO preganant very well, hyper emerisis until 14 weeks whioch has got progressively worse with each baby. So although I know its not for us, its still a hard decision to make. I’ve just been sorting thorugh all the baby clothes & nappies in preparation to sell *deep breaths* but I thought I’d rejoin and get to chat with some like minded parentals!